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Successful people and leaders in all walks of life tend to have similar core qualities about them. Of course everyone is better at some things than others, but there are certain characteristics that most possess. We all want to self actualize and become the best that we can, so I will provide you with 9 reasons why you have not yet reached your f

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    Dascoop1 year, 5 months ago

    10. Not Getting to know people that are in the direction you are headed.

    11. Have not sharpened your emotional intelligent skills.

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      JaneMay1 year, 5 months ago

      Building strategic relationships are very important! Thanks for adding to the list.

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    worthlesswhiteman1 year, 5 months ago

    What a bunch of crap.... one trait says its all and that is "pucker up and kiss ass."

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      JaneMay1 year, 5 months ago

      Hmmm, maybe we'll include that one in part II.

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        Dascoop1 year, 5 months ago

        13. You didn't sharpen your communication skills. Very poor choice of words.

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          Amok771 year, 5 months ago

          be sure to hold your nose...

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          JenMurdock1 year, 5 months ago

          Yeah, if only it were that simple. Never mind demographics, or knowing the right people, or living in a nepotistic town. I know PLENTY of smart, educated and POOR people, and some rich STUPID and financially rich people. Sorry, but it's not that cut and dry. My dad was smart, educated and in the right industry, but his 'boss' was stupid but KISSED THE RIGHT BUTT and never 'made waves' and that's why HE was the boss. He was a butt kisser, and my dad would never SINK that LOW. Luckily I don't KISS BUTT EITHER.

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            Dascoop1 year, 5 months ago

            Maybe you and your dad could work for each other. some spend a life time kissing the wrong butt.

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              Tenric1 year, 5 months ago

              Sometimes you have to KISS BUTT to get along. Or get a new job.

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              JaneMay1 year, 5 months ago

              Haha...I know the feeling Edinbug.

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                coolicula1 year, 5 months ago

                One of the best editorial cartoons I ever saw was of the very wealthy and successful Steve Forbes, when he was running for president, standing on a pedestal, arms akimbo, and the caption read..."I wish all of you whiners would roll up your shirtsleeves, get busy, and inherit your own fortunes!"...Sometimes it's just who's your Daddy!

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                  atypicalguy1 year, 5 months ago

                  How about the most important rule of all: you must be born to affluent or at least middle class parents who can afford to send you to college. If you grow up in a ghetto or a trailer park, you can have an IQ of 200 but chances are still better you'll wind up selling drugs.

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                    jumpmaster1 year, 5 months ago

                    Weak. If you are waiting for your parents to be retroactively wealthy, then I guess you can keep on waiting.

                    What is wrong with working to put yourself through college on your own? What is wrong with taking student loans? What is wrong with going without any new stuff or vacations until you finish your college education?

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                  bgibbs071 year, 5 months ago

                  11)Be in a family that can afford to send you to college without paying student loans for the rest of your life.

                  12)Have rich parents.

                  13)Win the lottery.

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                    JaneMay1 year, 5 months ago

                    Very good points. I come from a family that couldn't afford to send me to college, wern't rich at all, actually they were immagrants and did not win the lottery. With that said, I still consider myself a leader and successful at what I value.

                    Success can be measured in so many ways...financial stability, position held in a company, quality of life, maintaining positive relationships with friends and family members, etc.

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                  choppywatters1 year, 5 months ago

                  10... You spend too much time reading reports about why you're not successful!

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                    shots581 year, 5 months ago

                    Odviously being a good speller is not that important to being successful. The correct spelling is organization.

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                      moxxxxxxxxxx1 year, 5 months ago

                      Olny the frist and lsat lteter need to be corrcet. Splleing inst as imorpatnet as you tihnk. If you can't read and understand misspelled words your brain isn't working.

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                        jumpmaster1 year, 5 months ago

                        I wonder how many of your resumes went into the shredder instead of the call back pile.

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                      roobah1 year, 5 months ago

                      It's that BLANKITY BLANK #6 that gets me every time!!! I'd be famous and rich if I'd quit spending time reading these dumb articles!

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                        cleare1 year, 5 months ago

                        the most important element in success is blind, dumb luck.

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                          bigtimber1 year, 5 months ago

                          Success in the money world is ok if you get it for free, but it's not worth working everyday of your whole life for. To be truly successful you need to live life, not acumulate a buntch of money and junk. Life is only for a short while, don't spend it trying to build up anything as the only wealth and security you can ever have is time. Over achievers fail at life and they usually don't understand that till its to late.

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                            CommonSense501 year, 5 months ago

                            LOL!LOL!LOL! This has got to be up there at the top of the most useless lists of "what to do"... Focus? Honesty? Hard work? etc. do NOT mean a thing in the real working world! It is who you know and how you play the "game". I think we have all seen or experienced someone or ourselves, work hard, get the job done and then have another party walk away with the kudos, promotion and raise! Anyone who takes this list seriously needs to get a reality check-the working worlds does NOT function under these conditions! Its is Politics, Politics, Politics. Classis example for me: I worked at a firm and one year I got the "best" rating and raise of hte entire company, the next year? I got the "worst" rating and raise. Difference between years? The PERSON I WORKED FOR. My working habits did not change, but upper personnel did!

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                              Dascoop1 year, 5 months ago

                              excuses, excuses!

                              11. Didn't have the right attitude!

                              12. blaming others for your short coming!

                              13. Brain burn out from too many drugs!

                              14. lack of communication skills!

                              15. spend to much time complaining!

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                                Amazing11 year, 5 months ago

                                How about facing the fact that you really are not that motivated by money?

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                                  Tenric1 year, 5 months ago

                                  12. blaming others for your short coming!

                                  Seems like people bitching about this article keep coming up with this one.

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                                ntuitive11 year, 5 months ago

                                Was this list written by a college sophomore? Get real!

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                                  Amazing11 year, 5 months ago

                                  I think the successful person also has to KNOW what they WANT.

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                                    sue20081 year, 5 months ago

                                    to be successful, you have to be rich or know someone that is rich or live in the same city with rich people. your ideas will always be ideas untill someone with big bank account converts your ideas into actions.

                                    sooo, connection is needed.

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                                      evelyna1 year, 5 months ago

                                      What happened to the Missing Boyscout article?

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                                        protoham1 year, 5 months ago

                                        You mean Be prepared and Do a good turn daily.

                                        It will make a difference. Success is not measured by how much money you have in the bank.

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                                        Thezeu1 year, 5 months ago

                                        For me to have a succes,it's an categoric dizastre,because it's human succes,not spiritual,because it's ded not life.I don't want to be an man with succes.I want to be poor,i want to think and say what i want.I want to make what i want.God,don't give me succes.

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                                          jumpmaster1 year, 5 months ago

                                          Do you really want to be poor? Why can't you be financially stable and also have the other things in life that are important to you?

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                                          jumpmaster1 year, 5 months ago

                                          Excuses, I mean reasons for being unsuccussful:

                                          1. Wasn't born into money

                                          2. Didn't have rich parents that could send you to college

                                          3. Didn't win the lottery

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                                            Thezeu1 year, 5 months ago

                                            Ded=Death(i wrong with my english).

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                                              Follow_the_Money1 year, 5 months ago

                                              My experience has shown me that reading how to be successful usually takes up all of the time that you need to become successful. I have known many highly educated people who are NOT successful or rich. However, I have a good friend who never completed the 8th grade who is a multi-millionaire. His secret??.....Follow the trends. Don't be afraid to get your hands dirty. Get in and get out while it is still a trend. Last, and most important....DON'T PLAY BY THE RULES!!!

                                              I have never been able to put these ideas to work even though I have invented many things and hold patents on most of them. It takes a certain mindset. Some of us just don't have that and no amount of advice will give it to us.

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                                                cleare1 year, 5 months ago

                                                jump --- for a change we agree on something...but i'd add a couple to your list...

                                                4. Not good looking.

                                                5. Not athletic.

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                                                  jumpmaster1 year, 5 months ago

                                                  The bad news is that you cannot pick your parents. And you get the looks that you inherited. A person can do the best with what they were born with as far as their looks are concerned. As far as being athletic, this is addressable too. I lost 45 pounds last year for all kinds of reasons but one of them was because I felt that my appearance was holding me back.

                                                  I got a new and much better job this year. A part albeit probably a small part of it was because I looked better.

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                                                  Amok771 year, 5 months ago

                                                  You are defining success by money, how stupid. There are a lot of things more important than money. Money would make most of us prudish aholes. I would place moral values and love ahead of money cause thats all I got. :)

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